Third, if you are scared people won't accept you, that's ok too. Love yourself for it! We are pretty awesome. Second, even if you are not 'out', you are still bi. I came out to my mom at 1 am on a random Tuesday, because that was when I got up enough courage. There will almost never be a 'perfect moment'. First, I know it is scary to think about coming out, so take your time. Hi everyone! I'm a bi girl who fully came into my sexuality about a year ago.